Paulette Kelly wrote the poem I Got Flowers Today (Dedicated to Battered Women) in 1992.
It’s been 33 years since that poem was released and it still resonates despite the decades.
But here’s the thing. The poem, while trying to paint how domestic violence looks, actually feeds the trope that women are ultimately responsible while absolving the abuser of their responsibility to not be violent.
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